Comments on: How to Love Your Ex http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/ Being Afraid and Doing It Anyway Fri, 10 Sep 2010 16:28:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Shelley Clunie http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3260 Shelley Clunie Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:06:00 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3260 I read that mantra was used in Hawaii and called Ho-o-pono-pono by the therapist who empied out the psych ward. He just looked at the case file and saw something of himself in that person. His spoken love. sorry, forgiveness and thanks were to himself! I posted this mantra as a caregivers prayer, and used it effectually with alzheimers patients who wondered why I was barring the door against their leaving. I found I could be firm and not feel unkind, for I was truly loving myself as well as them. Shelley I read that mantra was used in Hawaii and called Ho-o-pono-pono by the therapist who empied out the psych ward. He just looked at the case file and saw something of himself in that person. His spoken love. sorry, forgiveness and thanks were to himself! I posted this mantra as a caregivers prayer, and used it effectually with alzheimers patients who wondered why I was barring the door against their leaving. I found I could be firm and not feel unkind, for I was truly loving myself as well as them. Shelley

]]> By: Marlene Chism http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3200 Marlene Chism Fri, 20 Aug 2010 04:18:16 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3200 Such an awesome article. When you become fully responsible for your life, you quit holding others accountable for the one thing you can be responsible for...your state of consciousness. I love what Eckhart Tolle says: Only an unconscious person tries to manipulate, but only an unconscous person can be manipulated. When we are unconscious we attract manipulation. When we become conscious we forgive and at the same time we do not allow unconscious behavior as an excuse. Thanks for the article Alexis. Marlene Chism, <a href="http://www.stopyourdrama.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.stopyourdrama.com</a> Such an awesome article. When you become fully responsible for your life, you quit holding others accountable for the one thing you can be responsible for…your state of consciousness. I love what Eckhart Tolle says: Only an unconscious person tries to manipulate, but only an unconscous person can be manipulated. When we are unconscious we attract manipulation. When we become conscious we forgive and at the same time we do not allow unconscious behavior as an excuse. Thanks for the article Alexis. Marlene Chism, http://www.stopyourdrama.com

]]> By: Carolyn http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3199 Carolyn Fri, 20 Aug 2010 03:51:00 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3199 Alexis,<br>Awesome words of truth. Having just gone through a divorce after 12 years of marriage, those are some great words of wisdom. I'm saving this article to read again and again when I forget it's wisdom.<br>Carolyn Alexis,
Awesome words of truth. Having just gone through a divorce after 12 years of marriage, those are some great words of wisdom. I'm saving this article to read again and again when I forget it's wisdom.
Carolyn

]]> By: alexisneely http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3198 alexisneely Thu, 19 Aug 2010 03:52:05 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3198 Yes, Leslie, thank you! It is so my joy to model this for you and others. Yes, Leslie, thank you! It is so my joy to model this for you and others.

]]> By: alexisneely http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3196 alexisneely Thu, 19 Aug 2010 03:51:25 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3196 You are so welcome Leslie! It's my joy to model this for you. You are so welcome Leslie! It's my joy to model this for you.

]]> By: alexisneely http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3197 alexisneely Thu, 19 Aug 2010 03:50:54 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3197 In the past it was bullshit, yes. But it doesn't have to be. The new paradigm is based on love and forgiveness. When we can all embrace that our world will change. Love to you. In the past it was bullshit, yes. But it doesn't have to be. The new paradigm is based on love and forgiveness. When we can all embrace that our world will change. Love to you.

]]> By: sf http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3195 sf Wed, 18 Aug 2010 11:04:50 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3195 Oh please! What bullshit. Oh please! What bullshit.

]]> By: Leslie Ringler http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3006 Leslie Ringler Sat, 22 May 2010 02:04:02 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-3006 I thought I was crazy for thinking something like this is possible! Thank you for showing me that I'm not and that radical love and forgiveness is possible! I thought I was crazy for thinking something like this is possible! Thank you for showing me that I'm not and that radical love and forgiveness is possible!

]]> By: Dee http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-2850 Dee Sun, 21 Mar 2010 06:33:29 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-2850 Amazing but no doubt difficult and requiring significant maturity and self confidence too.<br><br>Congrats. Still wrapping my head around the living together part. Amazing but no doubt difficult and requiring significant maturity and self confidence too.

Congrats. Still wrapping my head around the living together part.

]]> By: kristieP123 http://www.alexismartinneely.com/how-to-love-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-2827 kristieP123 Fri, 12 Mar 2010 07:54:12 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.com/?p=1166#comment-2827 It is harder to be stronger--My husbands ex wife has always been around (17 years) (I invite her and her parents constantly) It is the right thing to do---My step son is a United States Marine now and not home often -and I still have his Mother and Grandparents over!!!!!! It is harder to be stronger–My husbands ex wife has always been around (17 years) (I invite her and her parents constantly) It is the right thing to do—My step son is a United States Marine now and not home often -and I still have his Mother and Grandparents over!!!!!!

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