Comments on: How to Love Your Ex

By: Stacy Kennedy

Stacy Kennedy — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 11:35:00 +0000

I love drama….

By: Stacy Kennedy

Stacy Kennedy — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 11:32:00 +0000

I love it….

By: June

June — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 01:13:00 +0000

There is all truth in this piece, thanks… I have found the benefit in my Ex over and over again and feel a sense of gratitude for what “I” was able to create in the aftermath for both myself, my former husband and our son. Why be mad? It’s just not worth holding onto and has the ability to muck up the future if we don’t let go. www.benefitofthex.com…is my site about love and relationships. Feel free to check it out! Thanks for your words too. So important for growth! Aloha, June

By: Shelley Clunie

Shelley Clunie — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:06:00 +0000

I read that mantra was used in Hawaii and called Ho-o-pono-pono by the therapist who empied out the psych ward. He just looked at the case file and saw something of himself in that person. His spoken love. sorry, forgiveness and thanks were to himself! I posted this mantra as a caregivers prayer, and used it effectually with alzheimers patients who wondered why I was barring the door against their leaving. I found I could be firm and not feel unkind, for I was truly loving myself as well as them. Shelley

By: Marlene Chism

Marlene Chism — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 04:18:16 +0000

Such an awesome article. When you become fully responsible for your life, you quit holding others accountable for the one thing you can be responsible for...your state of consciousness. I love what Eckhart Tolle says: Only an unconscious person tries to manipulate, but only an unconscous person can be manipulated. When we are unconscious we attract manipulation. When we become conscious we forgive and at the same time we do not allow unconscious behavior as an excuse. Thanks for the article Alexis. Marlene Chism, http://www.stopyourdrama.com

By: Carolyn

Carolyn — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 03:51:00 +0000

Alexis,
Awesome words of truth. Having just gone through a divorce after 12 years of marriage, those are some great words of wisdom. I'm saving this article to read again and again when I forget it's wisdom.
Carolyn

By: alexisneely

alexisneely — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 03:52:05 +0000

Yes, Leslie, thank you! It is so my joy to model this for you and others.

By: alexisneely

alexisneely — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 03:51:25 +0000

You are so welcome Leslie! It's my joy to model this for you.

By: alexisneely

alexisneely — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 03:50:54 +0000

In the past it was bullshit, yes. But it doesn't have to be. The new paradigm is based on love and forgiveness. When we can all embrace that our world will change. Love to you.

By: sf

sf — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 11:04:50 +0000

Oh please! What bullshit.