Comments on: Yes, I pay alimony to my husband (or as it’s being called “manimony”) http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/ Being Afraid and Doing It Anyway Sun, 05 Feb 2012 18:53:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Toddpneely http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-3417 Toddpneely Sun, 31 Oct 2010 14:42:00 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-3417 Yikes!! You should get a therapist! Yikes!! You should get a therapist!

]]> By: Toddpneely http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-3418 Toddpneely Sun, 31 Oct 2010 14:41:00 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-3418 Yes I am the one who raised our kids, and that was my choice. Someone had to do it! Yes I am the one who raised our kids, and that was my choice. Someone had to do it!

]]> By: Truth http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-3355 Truth Sun, 03 Oct 2010 01:17:00 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-3355 As Dr Laura would say, you have to take some responsibility for choosing the wrong men (although I would agree on your comments on p/alimony). As Dr Laura would say, you have to take some responsibility for choosing the wrong men (although I would agree on your comments on p/alimony).

]]> By: Me http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-3069 Me Thu, 17 Jun 2010 23:33:01 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-3069 Sabrina, your sister's marriage is exactly like mine. Mine is trying to pull the "I want custody" bullshit yet he's out at bars, the gym, etc. Sabrina, your sister's marriage is exactly like mine. Mine is trying to pull the “I want custody” bullshit yet he's out at bars, the gym, etc.

]]> By: Me http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-3068 Me Thu, 17 Jun 2010 23:30:37 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-3068 Oh honey I firmly believe he should get off his ass and work, and I do understand why he can't and is there for the kids but seriously? To me, that's called child support. He can figure out how to get a good job with a flexible company policy to get those kids from school, etc.<br><br>My husband is out and out lazy. He works in his own business but he never got a degree, smokes weed, and even sacrifices his time watching our child for GOLF. Yes golf. beacuse you know, golf is important. <br><br>Screw that about paying alimony for that bullshit. I would LOVE to be home with my child part time--still bring in income but you know, I can't. My husband's faults resulted in me picking up more of HIS slack so we can have a house ,bills paid, etc. I think that does not deserve alimony.<br><br>I think he deserves a kick in the ass and figure out how to work the 3rd shift and be with our son. I chose the right path in life, he didn't. I'm tired of paying for it. Oh honey I firmly believe he should get off his ass and work, and I do understand why he can't and is there for the kids but seriously? To me, that's called child support. He can figure out how to get a good job with a flexible company policy to get those kids from school, etc.

My husband is out and out lazy. He works in his own business but he never got a degree, smokes weed, and even sacrifices his time watching our child for GOLF. Yes golf. beacuse you know, golf is important.

Screw that about paying alimony for that bullshit. I would LOVE to be home with my child part time–still bring in income but you know, I can't. My husband's faults resulted in me picking up more of HIS slack so we can have a house ,bills paid, etc. I think that does not deserve alimony.

I think he deserves a kick in the ass and figure out how to work the 3rd shift and be with our son. I chose the right path in life, he didn't. I'm tired of paying for it.

]]> By: drparth http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-3004 drparth Fri, 21 May 2010 01:08:02 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-3004 Thanks for speaking up for the kiddos and for a Mindful mentality.<br>All in all, there is too much anger and not enough consideration for what is important in the end, our kids and our own integrity. <br>pg Thanks for speaking up for the kiddos and for a Mindful mentality.
All in all, there is too much anger and not enough consideration for what is important in the end, our kids and our own integrity.
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]]> By: CScott - email subject lines http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-110 CScott - email subject lines Wed, 02 Dec 2009 21:00:44 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-110 Well... at least you didn't have to pay big bucks for a lawyer. Well… at least you didn't have to pay big bucks for a lawyer.

]]> By: Mike http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-64 Mike Fri, 24 Jul 2009 04:39:12 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-64 Awesome and refreshing points of view Alexis! Being a "big" enough person to do what's right for the kids is hugely important and far to often ignored in divorces. It makes no difference if the money comes from the man, the woman or both. The kids hungry bellies and education funds don't mind so why should we? Oh, Jack M.....REAL nice way to talk to a lady. Back to your cave dude. The system isn't perfect, but neither are people..."bitches" or "man-bitches" :-) Awesome and refreshing points of view Alexis! Being a “big” enough person to do what’s right for the kids is hugely important and far to often ignored in divorces.

It makes no difference if the money comes from the man, the woman or both. The kids hungry bellies and education funds don’t mind so why should we?

Oh, Jack M…..REAL nice way to talk to a lady. Back to your cave dude.

The system isn’t perfect, but neither are people…”bitches” or “man-bitches” :-)

]]> By: Jack M http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Jack M Thu, 16 Jul 2009 00:32:36 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-63 You bitches are all the same. It always the man's fault. Bout time some states wake up and make the women pay once in a while. I have seen so many women get away with telling the court such bs . I love it when a women judge see through the crocodile tears and awards teh man from time to time. MORE WOMEN JUDGES I say You bitches are all the same. It always the man’s fault. Bout time some states wake up and make the women pay once in a while. I have seen so many women get away with telling the court such bs . I love it when a women judge see through the crocodile tears and awards teh man from time to time. MORE WOMEN JUDGES I say

]]> By: kelly http://www.alexismartinneely.com/yes-i-pay-alimony-to-my-husband-or-as-its-being-called-manimony/comment-page-1/#comment-62 kelly Thu, 12 Feb 2009 18:36:06 +0000 http://alexismartinneely.wordpress.com/?p=53#comment-62 Man! Never knew USA (or California) has such laws! But I am VERY proud of you. In marriage or divorce, children's needs should always be met first before your own. And I think you've done it. Be sure to let your kids know MUMMY (that's you) love them no matter what!! I do look forward to reading more in your blog and getting to know you Alexis! Man! Never knew USA (or California) has such laws! But I am VERY proud of you. In marriage or divorce, children’s needs should always be met first before your own. And I think you’ve done it.

Be sure to let your kids know MUMMY (that’s you) love them no matter what!!

I do look forward to reading more in your blog and getting to know you Alexis!

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